The Good Man's Guide
Plan ahead, even the night before, to surprise her with a delicious meal (once in a while, without being asked). This is a way to let her know that you have been thinking of her and are concerned about her needs.
Freshen up a bit with a little cologne.
Be a little gay and a little more interesting for her. Her day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.
Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the house just before she arrives home.
Light some candles for her so she can unwind. She will feel that she has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for her comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.
Be Happy to see her.
Greet her with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please her.
Listen to her. You may have a dozen important things to tell her (just joking), but the moment of her arrival is not the time. Let her talk first, remember, her topics of conversation are more important than yours at that moment.
Make the evening hers, at least once a week. Try to understand her world of strain and pressure and her very real need to be at home and relax.
Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your significant other can renew herself in body and spirit.
Don't greet her with complaints and problems.
Make her comfortable. Have her lean back in a comfortable chair or have her lie down in the bedroom. Have a martini or a glass of wine ready for her.
Arrange her pillow and offer to take off her shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.
Don't ask her questions about her actions or question her judgment or integrity. Remember, she is to be respected at all times. She is to be put on a pedestal and treated like the most precious woman on earth and with that he will be treated ten fold with love and respect.
A Good man always knows his boundaries.
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